If you want to work on your partner relationships or want to make a base line about whether your current relationship is healthy, you can check your relationship on the following parameters. The more you find positive qualities, the stronger your relationship is. These strengths and resources make your relationships eternal and long lasting. If you cultivate the following features in your relationship you can predict a better and satisfying life with your partner. Cordial relationships fulfil most of the following characteristics.
1. If you know about your partner’s friends then it reveals that you know your partner well. If you can tell about one of his/her friend’s name and a good thing about that friend, it is a good relationship indicator.
2. You both are lively and enjoy being frisky while you spend time together. You both try to make this time more enjoyable and playful. This is one thing to keep charm in your relationship. When you enjoy your partner so you stay longer with him/ her and this is the secret of intimate relationship with your partner.
3. You are positive about your partner and you cherish that your partner has many good things and many creative ideas. If you are confident about your partner’s abilities then you will stay longer with your partner because you feel good with him/her.
4. Because you like your partner it will prompt you to develop similar qualities as your partner. In some ways or other if you feel like becoming akin to your partner it is a good sign that your relationship will grow.
5. Although there are disagreements between you both but you respect that your partner has logics behind his/her arguments. It shows that the disagreements will reach to some conclusion. Either you or your partner will compromise for the arguments. There are lesser chances of fights even you both disagree.
6. The closeness doesn’t mean physical presence to you both. Even distance makes you farther away but the feelings you hold for your partner still pop up in your mind. This is the key for making yourself closer to your partner.
7. You trust your partner and have confidence over his/her fidelity. You never doubt intentions of your partner and if there is any misunderstanding then you take immediate step to remove it.
8. Another thing which is considered characteristic of healthy relationships is an optimism about partner’s physical appearance and affection. It is observed that decent couples view their partner as more attractive and affectionate compared to what people think about their partner or what their partner think about themselves.
9. What makes relationship live long is the respect you give to the changes brought about in your partner with the passage of time. It is natural that people change as they grow. When couples think that their partners are changed from what they were at first sight, this begins a never-ending clash between two personalities which is generally un-repairable.
10. You enjoy and celebrate your partner’s success. It becomes the couple’s success rather individual’s. You both share enthusiasm and excitement of the victory. And thus, your partner takes your attainment as his/her own accomplishment.
11. When you meet with your partner after a hectic day, you start talking with positive statements rather than negatives. If you have to say something undesirable, your first affirmative account will neutralize the effect of any unpleasant remarks. This is a trick to avoid relationship conflicts.
12. Time to time you recall those happy moments you both spent which were full of fun and charm. Having some cheerful instants together and cherish them at some time later in life is the key for staying happy in a relationship.
13. If you know about one of the favourite books of your partner it is a good sign. If you don’t know any, just ask your partner and become more aware of the positive aspects of your relationship.
14. Get more knowledge about what your partner wants to achieve in life. The more you get to know about your partner, the stronger your relationship builds.
15. Get some thrill in your relationship. Have some challenging experiences in life which remain with you in future. Thus, you will have moments to cherish about your past.
16. To keep charm in a relationship partners need intimacy. This basic drive needs to be expressed rather than repressed. Partners who share their affection time to time such as, daily they give a simple kiss, it keeps their love refreshed every day.
17. Your relationship is supposed to be healthy if you feel comfortable with your partner even if you discuss something negative such as worries, doubts or tensions. It shows that you trust your partner to be supportive any time you face problems in life.
18. Those who are in healthy relationships usually talk in their pet language. They use some jargons to communicate special things to their partner. It seems enjoyable for them to talk in love language.
19. Those who bind themselves in love relationship generally like to share their childhood memories with their partner. That’s a positive thing if you know one of the humiliating experience your partner had during old times.
20. Similarly it is good that you know more about your partner’s childhood such as one of the most delightful moment of his/her life.
21. It is found that affectionate couples have very few such moments in which they show disdain, criticism or call bad names for their partner, rest of the time is usually decent.
22. As you get to know about your partner, you also know more about his/her family. You can tell those qualities which your partner and his/ her family has in common.
23. Similarly those couples having children can tell about what qualities their children share from both of the partners.
24. Healthy couples cherish each other’s vision and personal aims. They respect other partner’s desire to flourish in life. Even they get ready to compromise little things to make their partner’s dream come true.
25. You feel secure around your partner and trust that your partner will fulfil your needs either financial or emotional.
26. You respect your partner’s views, thoughts and feelings.
27. Similarly your partner respects yours. They are expressive and allow you to reach their heart and thoughts.
28. They show gratitude to their partner.
29. They keep respect and approval for their partner.
30. They work as a team to reach their goals.
31. They are aware of partner’s liking such as his/ her favourite melodies.
32. They grow together and keep admiration for their positive qualities.
33. They have a lovely note for morning greetings and goodbyes.
34. They sympathise with their partner if he/ she shares any traumatic events of life.
35. They show interest in what their partners have to discuss.
36. You know the importance of your partner’s friends and blood relations in his/her life.
37. You enjoy the time spent with each other.
38. You don’t label your partner with bad names but do discuss what behaviour you don’t like.
39. When your partner suggests you something then you respect and take their ideas.
40. You show warmth and intimacy towards your partner.
41. Fun and entertainment are part of their life.
42. Thoughts about the moment when your partner come into your life still energize you.
43. You are aware of what kind of people your partner likes such as a close family member.
44. You are aware if your partner had any favourite pet animal.
45. You can tell how your partner enjoys things and how can you make him/ her happy.
46. During tough times or hassles, partners seek help from each other instead of trying to solve it individually.
47. You have confidence that your partner would listen when you want to share something important.
48. Physically you feel intimate to your partner and curious to discover more about him/ her.
49. You know what kind of dishes or food your partner loves to eat.
50. You love your partner and feel complete in his/ her presence. It’s like if you are given a chance to take someone to a beautiful and your favourite place, that single person would be your partner.